Tag Archives: Trans counselling QLD

Am I Trans Enough?

15 Apr

Cross-posted at Trans Counseling QLD

Have you asked yourself “Am I trans enough?” This is a particularly significant question for transgender people who waited until later in life to transition, or are only just now exploring their gender as adults. The standard narrative of “I knew since I was a child” and “I transitioned young” certainly is a feel good narrative. However, the alternative that turns out to be true for many, many people is that we knew something was wrong, but couldn’t understand what that something was. We went many years thinking that we were somehow wrong, and begrudgingly accepting that we were broken.

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Am I Transgender?

13 Apr

Recently, a very good friend of mine in Australia who’s offering transgender counseling services asked me if I would write an occasional guest piece for her website, Trans Counselling QLD. I am truly honored that she respects me enough to make the request. Without further ado, here’s the first of those articles.


Cross-posted at Trans Counseling QLD

I am a transgender woman. I am not a professional counselor. I have been diagnosed with gender dysphoria. I am romantically attracted to women, which makes me a lesbian. There is a common misconception among cisgender people that trans people, by definition, experience a particular sexual orientation. To be specific, that trans women are really just effeminate gay men, and that trans men are just masculine lesbians. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

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